Maybe that means we blow the wall up with dynamite, blasting through those fears and limiting beliefs that are holding you back.
Maybe it means we build a step ladder to get over it, by building up your self confidence and sense of self worth.
Maybe it means we tunnel below it to handle your root issues with money or security.
Maybe it means we look at things from a new perspective and realize that the wall is only a tiny fence and you can walk right around it to your goal.
Maybe it even means we look around and realize that your goal is really in the other direction from the wall and you carve out a new path through the jungle.
Each wall is different, as each client is unique. As your Life Coach, I will not come with all the solutions and answers all laid out in a perfect row. Instead, I come to the table with questions and a fresh perspective. Life coaching is a process of team work and co-creation. Together, we discover the answers you already have inside and we find your perfect path to your heart’s desire. No matter how wonderful it would be, I can’t wave a magic wand and make it all come true. You have to be an active creator of your magic.
That depends- “Do you like pina coladas… (belt it out with me now) …and getting caught in the rain?”
Seriously, though, that brings me to my first point. You must have a well-oiled sense of humor. You have to be able to laugh at yourself, at life, and at me, or we won’t play well together.
Also, this process is a bit like a dating service, since you’re using my online 'profile' to decide if you want to enter into a committed relationship with me and your dreams. I also only work with clients who I feel will benefit from working with me. I’ll be honest and open and you just have to trust your gut. At least you won’t have to set up a fake emergency call to get out of our session if we’re not a match. ;)
OK, so you know there will be laughter. However, please be assured that I will not laugh at your hurts or fears or dreams, no matter how hard to find or far away or small they feel at first. I will hold our time sacred (that means it’s special- it doesn’t mean there will be no fun) and nurture your dreams along with you. I will be dedicated to your growth and send you positivity and good mojo as often as you need it. I will be your personal cheerleader, as any forward movement is worthy of a virtual champagne popping and a few cupcakes (with a gluten-free option, of course)!
If you need a gentle nudge or a good kick in the pants, I’m here for that too. I’m here to see you stretch into your own divine marvelousness and I won’t let you accept your own self-imposed limitations. I’m here to hold up a mirror for you to see your awesomeness reflected back and then to help you break down the walls of your comfort zone so you can get to where the magic happens.
I’m NOT your coach if any of those lines sound way too woo-woo or if you can’t accept your own marvelous fabulosity.
I’m NOT your coach if you like your comfort zone too much to stretch outside of it a few steps at a time.
I’m NOT your coach if my writing and tone don’t resonate with you, or if my made-up words bother you (or random musical interludes, for that matter).
And it’s perfectly okay if I’m NOT your coach. We all have our own vibe and I appreciate you even if you’re not my client (diversity is the spice of life).
I AM your coach if you’re willing to leap forward into your full potential, without letting your fear hold you back.
I AM your coach if you’re ready to discover your own dance, even if the tune is by a band only you can hear (yet, anyway).
I AM your coach if you know you’re the creator of your life and you’re ready to paint the next layer of this masterpiece.